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I have a question that I have a stepsister so I and her daughter were playing together and she said to me that lift me in the air so I also said her several times no but she said me just lift me one time I did so the next day my step sister was angry not on me but she was scolding her daughter about that same incident,so what should I do now but I love my sister a lot and I also hug her when she meets me so should I hug her or not and could this be considered as a bad behavior ?