.. How do you decide what's enough stress for an infant or toddler?
A. Include a little more detrimental stress each time in each situation until the child becomes acclimated to handle heavier loads of "bad" stress
B. Alleviate the stress as soon as it's detected. Infants/toddler stress isn't healthy at any level
C. Stay calm, watch the child's actions, and try to imagine what the child is feeling
D. Let the child manage the stress by him or herself without interfering