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Explanation:
The greatest thing that ever happened to my marriage is that we learned to laugh. Things that used to make us fight for a month, now we literally look at each other and start laughing instead.
Before reaching this point in our relationship, my husband and I were with our small group, and he told a story about me in the group. There are the public stories that you say and tell everybody, and there are others you just don’t share. So I was just sitting there. We were with them for a long time at that point, and then went to dinner together, and I just kept getting more and more upset. I felt betrayed, and I felt unsafe. And that was the lie that was growing. It was just, he can do that and move on and I'm kind of under the bus, and he doesn't even care, you know? Then this bigger narrative began unfolding. Now I’ve moved from mad to distraught, to questioning our marriage. It moved from something small to this huge marital issue and distrust.