Answer:
Jonas is 100% correct I think all the pain shouldn't be just on one person. But with the way the story is set up I think there should be just a few people in The Giver position to split everything up. I mean this is just a kid getting put in a situation that not even most adults are capable of handling and he has to live with it for the rest of his life. Just to make things work he has to hide all of it from his friends during the training section and after that he has to live by himself with no friends, just a secretary.