1. If you had to pick just one would you call yourself a boy, man, girl, woman, gender non-binary child or gender non-binary adult?
2. If you identified yourself as a boy, girl or gender non-binary child; when will you become a man, woman or gender non-binary adult?
Or
If you identified yourself as a man, woman or gender non-binary adult; when did you become a man, woman or gender non-binary adult?