who arrives with dee/wangero on this visit ; what household objects does dee/wangero want; why did dee change her name to wangero; what household objects does dee/wangero want which one does mama give her; why has dee changed her name; short summary of everyday use; what is ironic about her request for these objects and her professed interest in her heritage?; in what ways do the quilts hold different meanings for dee/wangero and for maggie?