Explanation:
I'm unable to access specific pages or content from materials, including page 9 of a lesson or any external content. However, I can guide you on how to create a goal, promises, and a strong question for Tonya and Jeff:
1. **Goal:** A specific goal for Tonya and Jeff could be: "To understand each other's perspectives and find a resolution to our disagreement without escalating tensions."
2. **Promises:**
a. Tonya can promise: "I promise to actively listen to Jeff's feelings and concerns without interrupting."
b. Jeff can promise: "I promise to express my thoughts calmly and respectfully without resorting to personal attacks."
3. **Strong Question:**
A strong question to help them move forward could be: "How can we both ensure that our communication stays constructive and respectful, even when we disagree?"
These components aim to facilitate a constructive dialogue between Tonya and Jeff, fostering understanding, respect, and a collaborative approach to resolving their conflict.