Read the following scenario.

You are a food server at a neighborhood restaurant. You are in a meeting with the store manager, the owner, and two other food servers. The topic of discussion is the owner’s plan for a special holiday menu. She has asked for your input on her ideas. You are concerned that the holiday menu will not appeal to vegetarians, a large segment of the restaurant’s customers.

Which of the following would be the most respectful way to talk about your concerns?

I think more menu options are needed. Your proposed specials have too much meat.

Are you sure you want this menu?

I’ve noticed that a lot of our customers request vegetarian options. I’m wondering if this menu will appeal to them.

I think you should have more vegetarian items.

In my opinion, I think that the third option is best. "I’ve noticed that a lot of our customers request vegetarian options. I’m wondering if this menu will appeal to them."

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MrsTate MrsTate · Answer 2 · 2019-03-16T00:54:49+01:00

I’ve noticed that a lot of our customers request vegetarian options. I’m wondering if this menu will appeal to them.

This would be the most respectful way of voicing your concerns. While the server has been asked for her opinion, she is not the boss. It is important that she not speak in a way that is demeaning or demanding. The first option is just wrong because it doesn't actually solve the problem of appealing to vegetarians. The second option is a little too demeaning as it makes the menu seem terrible. The third option is best. It demonstrates the server's knowledge of the client base and allows the owner to come to his own conclusion that there needs to be more vegetarian options.