True lovers always have to overcome problems to be together.
In the excerpt, Lysander says that every story he read or heard always had problems for the lovers. He is not speaking directly about the father. He is also not saying anything about her being upset. However, his lines are meant to console her, but not in a way that creates an ultimatum. The last one is also not true because he is not comparing their love as any better or worse than any other people's love. He is simply stating that lovers always have obstacles to face in their relationship.
